Apology and Forgiveness

I was always taught to forgive, though at times this was very hard. Apologising is also something that needs to be said as they are two sides of the same emotional coin. However, forgiveness shouldn`t be just the result of the apology, both are just as important.  Each side must mean what they are saying and not expect the other side to make the first move.  It`s a healing process and as such , a very important to both parties too.

If left unresolved, emotion fester like an open wound that is unable to heal. The wound goes mouldy and the infection spreads further from the made problem.  It`s a bit like a stone dropped into water and the circular ripples spread outwards to the edge of the water.

This festering gets worse and worse and manages to include others but word of mouth. People are influenced bu opinions and take on the same thoughts and more and more the infection spreads.

This needs to be stopped or it will never ever heal but hurt more and by that more people are hurt to the point, no one believes anyone or haven`t got a clue what exactly started it all.

So remember, apologising and receiving forgiveness helps to heal wounds, emotions, friends and families.   

Don`t let it ruin you!!

Feuds

Apologies and forgiveness

are at the heart of everything

they help the healing process

and take away the painful sting

we should never let it fester

for then the infection will spread

hurting more that just ourselves

creating pain in heart and head

forgiveness and apologies

are needed, so we can move on

creating calm and harmony

to live happily with everyone

(C) Lissie Bull 2022